Am i too direct?

last few days, our honour PP of iParents (Nani) has said that my instinct is always correct. Do you think so too? maybe it is for you to think like that, not me.

:: be frank, not become frank further..

since i start to work as a tuition teacher in 2009, i have been told by my senior that not to be so frankly in any aspect. it is because we might hurt other people without knowing by ourselves. being DIRECT is not always a good thing. for friends' behalf, if i feel that something is urgent and i think changes in that particular person is a must, then i will told him or her on the spot directly. if you know me deeper then u will know, i can't really tahan on what others done is totally different with what have i done without a reasonable explanation. for SS case, yes; for N case, yes also. Nani will know who am i talking about. ^ ^

it goes the same during macro teaching. let's talk about what has happened in today's class. the class start at 3.45pm today as Dr Rosnidar has to attend a meeting before that. and what we going to learn today is chapter 5- cell division. One will teach about mitosis and another teach about meiosis. both of them are confusing about the phases occur in both phase and explained it wrongly. but i am not giving the chance to comment on this as out lecturer are rushing back to house for rest.. so, what to do? is being a direct person good? bad?

I don't know much, i just know i need to WORK HARD and responsible for all the things i need to be done and also be nice to people (didn't include for those i don't like, sorry ><). As a famous saying among UA UPSI "Kita hendaklah menghargai masa bersama kawan.", don't split yourselves alone when we are together in a car, or van, or coaster or bus. i did enjoy those moment with them, we are just like a family. even my foster parent said : " i thought you know Nani, Zati, Ain, and Munqeedz for a long time already?" haha, gotcha. do our relationship so good until others misunderstand about us? XP

after annoying for so long time, my bed is waving to me now. so, i need to left all these things and have a good dream before going to Putrajaya tomorrow for iParents presentation. i might not be the presenter but i will be the "slide-clicker" along the time. haha, as what i have told my brother, the title is not really mean to me, i can be the person who did the most work, but i am not really have an officially title as leader. it is not so important in life. if you are able to get people respect to you although you are only a toilet cleaner, you are success in your life.

remember this,

if you are able to gain RESPECT, 

then you are SUCCESS.