this is so called LIFE

just proved that one of my university course mate is suffering from third phase of lung cancer. what is in his mind when he received such news? if i am him, what will i feel? he is only 22 and yet being proved that having lung cancer at this age. i and my friend also don't know what to do or say to him at this juncture.

just know i have send FB message to him and we had chat for a while. he say it is really painful and hard to make decision on this. whether taking chemotherapy and stop practical, or just take medicine ad pass the rest of his life with practical only? it is really a sad decision to make. want to suffer and struggle for few more months life, or just choose the simplest way to pass the rest of the time? 

he must be very stress physically as well as mentally. but what to do? what else can we do? other than give him mentally support, nothing else that we can do. human;s life is really weak. any disease that attack us will make us hopeless. as his friend, i can only respect his decision and for the things which happened before this, just forget about it. we only stay alive once, after sleep in the coffin, you are nothing. really NOTHING.

do appreciate what you are having now and don't regret when you found out that you only have a few more months to do whatever you hope to do before this. appreciate family members and friends that you are having now. 

atul, praying hard for you. hope that the result will not so cruel. #PRAYING#