选择·顺其自然

怎么又回到选择这个课题上了？
果然，人生中就是充满了选择，最简单的"今天午餐/晚餐要吃什么" 或者 "明天要不要去晨跑" 都是让自己做出选择的时刻。

有时候啊，就是因为这些选择，或者说是因为人生中偶然出现了太多选择，人类对获取美好事物的欲望就会增加，进而增加原本不存在不必要的烦恼。不过这也是逼着我们一直努力向上做得更好的原因吧？正负两年，看自己如何取舍罢了～

我不否认，自己在毕业这两年内因为许许多多外来因素而促成自己的改变，让我对事情的看法及做出选择的角度有了些改变。不能完全说是做了对的选择，但因为选择是自己决定的，就要勇敢地去面对，把不对的再努力变成对的。

人生路上，必须时刻提醒自己，自己的生活由自己主宰，你一直是孤身作战的，偶尔会有伸出援手引导你的路人甲乙丙丁，但最终决定权还是握在自己手里。我很庆幸，在家庭低潮期、事业低潮期或人生低潮期时，都很幸运的遇到了一些路人甲乙丙丁。点头之交也好，莫逆之交也罢，对我的人生都带来的不一样的影响，真是感激不尽啊～

还记得Robert Frost 的 The Road Not Taken， 是生涯中点醒我自己就是决定权的掌控者，继续自我挑战，继续提醒着自己要做的更好，生活不就是为了自己所要的而活吗？加油。
#共勉之#

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—

I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.